There are a number of myths surrounding why people don’t wear their baby. Ok, so it’s not for everyone, and I don’t expect every new mum to want to carry her baby 24/7, but by virtue of the fact that you are looking here, you must have a vague interest. There are lots of mums who would like to use a baby sling, but are put off for various reasons, so I thought I would jot down some common misconceptions and help you find a way round them.
I have heard that they are uncomfortable
Some carriers can be uncomfortable, particularly if they are not fitting correctly. Different people, babies and lifestyles are better suited to different types of sling. When choosing a sling, consider what you will mainly be using it for, as well as who will be using it. For longer carrying, a carrier that goes over both shoulders (wrap or mei tai) is generally most comfortable, and these are also comfier for larger babies.
They are expensive
As with anything, they don’t have to be. Some of the best slings or carriers are made by work at home mums, who have learnt the hard way how to get a quality, comfortable carrier, and as they don’t have huge overheads, the price is often cheaper than the larger companies.
They are complicated, and too fiddly, or don’t feel safe
Most of them take a little practice to get used to, and it is often best to have someone else on hand to help you out for the first few goes, but once you have the knack, they are a doddle, and a lot of people say they can pop a baby in a sling far quicker than unloading the pushchair, unfolding it and strapping their baby in. For the best safety, ensure that all buckles or knots are tight, and retighten regularly if it feels necessary. Some carriers (mei tais and structured carriers) are tested to British Standards, so you can be assured of their safety.
I have twins, and can’t carry two!
It is possible to carry twins, either in a wrap with one tucked in each side, or using two mei tais – one on the front and one on the back. That said, it does take practice, and you may prefer to carry one at a time. There is no reason why parents of twins can’t carry one baby each, or carry one in a sling and use a pushchair for the other.
I have a pre-existing medical condition
There will be certain medical problems that mean it is advisable not to carry your baby in a sling. If you are in doubt, please seek advice from your doctor.
There is too much choice – how do I know which to pick?
There is a lot of choice out there, once you start looking. You can check out Sling Meet to see if there is a local group you can attend to try out of different types, or some sling companies offer a hire service so you can test them out in the comfort of your own home before splashing out. Things to consider when making your choice are: how long do you want it to last (birth to walking, or are you happy to buy a different style later on if neccessary), what will it mainly be used for (short trips, longer walks) and who will be using it. Once you break it up a bit, it becomes far less daunting.
I hope that helps clear up some of the false impressions you may have been given about babywearing, and of course, you will find lots of other useful information around the site.
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